Dear diary,
This quarantine has been long and in some cases difficult. Today I want
to talk about my girlfriend; about her testimony and how having a distance
relationship brings happiness to my life every day, even with these conditions.
My girlfriend’s name is Melissa, she is 20 years old, she is from Barranquilla
and she lives there too. The quarantine for Melissa brought good and bad
things, within this time she had the chance to know her better and to dedicate
more time to her. She hates virtual classes because professors just give work
and do not really explain the topics and she feels that she is learning
nothing. She also thinks that her university was not prepared for this crisis
and that is why the learning process plus the delay on the schedule has been a
pain during this period. She is very privileged because she lives in a city
close to the sea. She misses many things like going to the beach, feel the sun,
hang out with friends, going out to eat, the physical spaces of her university
and visit relatives. Therefore, the first thing that she is going to do when
the quarantine is over will be visit her grandmother. This space brought many thinking
to Melissa, for sure she has to learn how to drive and she made think when she
said that we are not really appreciating the interaction with people which is
very important to her. However, the experience has not been traumatic for her,
she found out many things to do and she adapted to the situation. The things
that she mostly does is talk with her boyfriend (me), do exercise, and stay
around with her family. Her family adapted too, they spend more time together
and well, her father is a doctor so life has not changed for him a lot, but in general,
everything has been great so far. Now the sad part for me and for her is that
this quarantine took away the opportunity of seeing each other, as I mentioned
in earlier posts. However, having a distance relationship and a quarantine
relationship is not too different, and we always find the way to do new things,
talk and have fun. Personally, I enjoy a lot my relationship, the happiness that
it brings to my life can’t be described, and I hope to see her soon. Nevertheless,
lets continue with Melissa’s thoughts. She believes that the quarantine brought
good things and now we are more conscious that simple things should be
appreciated more. Finally, she thinks that this is an opportunity to change the
world and of course she thinks that many things will change for the benefit of
humanity (if the world does not change then humanity sucks). I want to end this
post saying thanks to her and to dedicate it to her and as I always say I am
very privileged because of the things that I have, but most importantly for
people that surrounds me, and Melissa is one of them. I love you Melissa, you are
the proof that is time to love too, even in the distance.